The Mistress' Diary

It felt fitting for me to finally start my own blog, as Twitter (I refuse to call it X) hasn’t left Me very much room to properly convey My endlessly long series of thoughts, amusements and (unfortunately) complaints about the freaky world in which I reside: BDSM.

For starters, if you are new: hello and welcome. You may call Me Mistress Alexxxia. I am a professional Dominatrix taking residence in Brooklyn, a borough in what I believe truly is the greatest city in the world.

I began My kink journey as a submissive for several years before I realized societal pressures had kept My wings restrained to My sides. To the fantasist, this may be where you disconnect, and I would actually implore you to stay with Me. To the realistic kinkster, you recognize how deeply this was impactful for Me. So much of what I know now came from firsthand experience — of feeling it, hearing it, and processing it — and how valuable it became to form the type of Woman I am today. Feeling what it may take to experience the power of another, could easily become the wisdom needed to seize it yourself.

So you may be thinking: “Mistress, what will be the point of this blog? What things will you be writing about?” My dear reader, you have quite a glut of musings ahead of you to peruse. This blog will take several forms: reflections on My experiences as a Domme (perhaps even some short stories and real accounts of sessions) for those seeking entertainment, and important lessons that I think are imperative for the budding, new or lost submissive navigating this fun but often scary and complex world.

I’ve transformed quite a bit in My almost ten years of being a professional. I’ve watched and walked alongside the industry and the community as they’ve navigated the many changes O/our world faces today. And I find Myself both concerned with what the future will face, but also hopeful that the resilience of the kinky world I love (and the pros, clients and pets within it) will persevere.

Censorship, discrimination, misinformation and many other factors may stand before U/us. But W/we weather every storm to maintain the kinky community W/we know and love.

My blog is welcome to all: the seasoned veteran, the tenderfooted newbie, the hobbyist (I do have My eyes on you and how you absorb My words), the lifestyler, the client and the lost soul searching for meaning, discipline and purpose.

Enjoy a look into My mind.